After spending over a decade in the wedding industry, I’ve come to deeply appreciate the power of color, texture, and thoughtful design. Whether it’s choosing the perfect florals, layering charger plates with linens, or simply upgrading chairs to elevate a space, every detail contributes to creating a cohesive, beautiful experience. And recently, I’ve realized—I bring those same principles home with me.

While our home isn’t styled like a high-end wedding venue, there’s a certain charm and intentionality to it. It leans into a classic cottage aesthetic with a touch of vintage character and just like at an event, every design choice—from paint colors to curtains—builds upon a larger story. The same way you wouldn’t shift themes drastically from ceremony to reception, your home benefits from a visual and emotional continuity that flows from room to room.

Why a Whole Home Palette Matters

When you walk through your home, every transition should feel intentional. Shifting abruptly from a modern, minimalistic kitchen into a boldly bohemian living room can be jarring. That doesn’t mean every room should look the same—but rather that there should be a thread of connection throughout. A consistent color palette can bring that calm, grounded feeling to your space, turning your home into a place where you truly want to be—where you relax, recharge, and welcome others in.

Colors and textiles play a big role in setting the tone of a space. And having a whole home palette doesn’t mean restricting your creativity—it’s more like giving yourself a map. It creates harmony while still allowing each room to have its own unique personality.

How I Use a Color Palette at Home

I actually keep a visual reference of our home’s color palette—almost like a mood board—so I can check how new pieces will fit into the big picture. I focus on the larger elements: paint colors, wallpaper, curtains and major furniture pieces. These are the foundation of a room’s visual weight. The smaller accents—lamps, vases, or art—are more flexible, but I still keep them in mind to ensure they enhance the overall feel.

This system also allows me to mix and match furniture between rooms. Since everything lives within the same palette, moving a chair from the office to the bedroom doesn’t feel out of place. It’s like shopping my own home, and it brings a fresh feel without spending a dime.

The guest bedroom and staircase/hallway area have not been touched since we moved in – they’re not drastically out of place but at some point I would love to put our own spin on them. Likewise, the upstairs bathroom which is mainly used by my daughters and guests, does seem a little out of place since we recently updated the girls’ bedroom to this new color palette – previously it was a sweet blush pink and ivory gingham with shabby chic quilts which flowed nicely with the floral wallpaper and malted milk pink trim of their bathroom.

Getting Started on Your Own Palette

Whether you’re planning a big home makeover or just feeling the itch to refresh a room, here’s how you can begin creating a whole home color palette:

1. Start with what you love. Pick a few anchor pieces—furniture, rugs, or artwork—that you already have and want to keep. Use these to inspire your color base.
2. Choose colors that feel like you. Think about what tones you’re naturally drawn to. Are they warm and earthy? Cool and coastal? Soft and neutral?
3. Find the thread. Incorporate those chosen hues in different ways across different rooms. This could be through wall paint, upholstery, art, or even textiles like pillows or drapery.
4. Let rooms speak to each other. Even if each space has a unique look, there should be some visual callbacks—whether it’s a repeating color, texture, or pattern.
5. Edit as you go. If something feels out of place, it probably is. Trust your instincts, and don’t be afraid to move pieces around to find better balance.

Designing your home with a whole home color palette isn’t about strict rules—it’s about creating flow, ease, and beauty that supports your lifestyle. Whether this is something you’re already doing (consciously or not), or something you’re just beginning to explore, the result is the same: a space that feels just right.

Need help? That’s what I’m here for, email me and we can begin designing your home together.

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